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10 Years Ago – A Night I’ll Never Forget

10 years ago today I had a decent day job working in the accounting department of the local newspaper. I was working in a bowling alley as a bartender on the weekend. I had just found out a few days before that I was pregnant. I hadn’t even told the soon to be father yet. It was a Saturday night. Well, technically it was around 2 a.m. Sunday morning. I had just finished up at the bowling alley and was headed home.

I remember calling the baby’s father before I left for the bowling alley, telling him we needed to talk and arranging to see him the next day.

I remember grabbing a small plastic cup of water and grabbing my crackers I had brought with me and hid under the counter to manage my nausea before I left the bowling alley that night.

I remember pulling up to a stop light at an intersection.

I remember seeing an abandoned car sitting on the side of the cross road to my left.

I remember seeing a county sheriff’s deputy checking out the abandoned car.

I remember coming to and wondering where I was and what was happening.

I remember somebody holding my hand through the car window and telling me that everything was going to be ok.

I remember asking her to find my phone and calling my boyfriend, telling him I’d been in an accident and that I needed him and would he meet me at the hospital.

I remember calling my mom and before I could tell her what happened losing the strength to do so.

I remember the woman taking the phone from me and telling my mom what had happened and promising to stay with me until the ambulance arrived.

I remember the ambulance arriving and working on getting me out of the car.

I remember telling them over and over that I was pregnant and asking them if my baby was ok.

I remember them telling me everything would be fine and that I needed to calm down so they could get me out of the car and to a hospital.

I remember them finally pulling me from the car and putting me in the ambulance.

I remember the hospital trying to figure out how to make sure I was ok without risking harm to my baby.

I remember my mom arriving and holding my hand, telling me everything was going to be ok.

I remember my mom telling me the baby’s father had arrived and wanted to come back to see me.

I remember her telling me that I should probably tell him I was pregnant before he heard it from one of the doctors or nurses.

I remember being strapped to a hospital bed while I told my son’s father he was going to be a dad.

I remember getting x-rays and being told that the baby was probably fine and that he had more cushion than I did during the crash.

I remember the police officer who was checking out the abandoned car coming to the hospital to check on me.

I remember him apologizing for not stopping to make sure I was ok.

I remember him telling me that he was sure I was dead and he had to make sure he caught the guy and so he could pay for what he did.

I remember going home with my mom, barely able to move let alone walk.

I remember my mom helping me with a bath and making sure all the glass was off my body and out of my hair.

I remember calling my dad who was stationed in Japan at the time and telling him what happened.

I remember losing my job because I was too scared to drive and therefor didn’t have reliable transportation to and from work.

I remember the first time I drove again, the tears falling down my face as my sister assured me I could do it and was going to be ok.

I remember the long weeks, months and years following…trying to find a new normal.

I don’t remember the 19-year-old who was well above the legal alcohol limit hitting me from behind at an estimated 90 miles an hour and pushing me through a 4 lane intersection.

This time of year most people remember the happenings of September 11th. I also remember September 10th…and surviving.

10 Comments Filed Under: Andrew, General

Comments

  1. Darcie says

    September 11, 2010 at 10:10 am

    I remember you telling me about this, but not in this much detail. I am so glad that you survived and pushed through. You have blessed my life with your presence, and I feel so lucky to call you a close friend. *Big Hugs*

    Reply
    • Shannon Smith says

      September 11, 2010 at 2:13 pm

      I don’t talk much about it. Haven’t talked about it in years. For some reason I felt the need last night. There’s more detail to it, but I felt this hit the basics. I still need to find the picture and then I’ll update this post with it.

      Hugs…

      Reply
  2. Elvecia Ramos says

    September 15, 2010 at 12:39 pm

    Oh my gosh Shannon, I never knew this story. You go girl, you are a survivor!!

    Reply
    • Shannon Smith says

      September 15, 2010 at 4:00 pm

      Thanks girl. I don’t talk about it much, but it’s the source of most of my pain issues today. Now you know where it came from. :)

      Reply
  3. Corrie says

    February 15, 2012 at 8:37 pm

    OMG Shannon. I had no idea you were involved in an accident like this. So glad you’re ok.

    Reply
    • Shannon Smith says

      February 22, 2012 at 11:22 pm

      Thanks, Corrie!

      Reply
  4. Heather Struss says

    February 24, 2012 at 3:58 pm

    I never read this before, I just remember us talking about it. I’m so glad that you, and little Andrew, survived and we had many years together here in Utah. Love you, girl!

    Reply
    • Shannon Smith says

      February 24, 2012 at 4:13 pm

      I love you too! =)

      Reply
  5. Stacie says

    September 10, 2012 at 3:21 pm

    Wow! You’re definitely a survivor! ((((HUGS))))

    Reply
    • Shannon Smith says

      September 10, 2012 at 3:31 pm

      Thanks, Stacie! (((HUGS)))

      Reply

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